Do you remember the time when you gave your first kiss away? How was it like? How did you know when to give your first kiss away? Or could it be, you are still saving your first kiss for that special someone? There are just too many questions to ask yourself before giving out your first kiss. You feel afraid to give out your first kiss, and that is normal. Well, to the girls, they might be afraid, however, to the guys, there lies a different story. First kiss, the one and only beginning of a new journey. Before you give your first kiss away, you might want to know who you want to give it too. If he is your first boyfriend , then you have to know if he deserves your first kiss. I can say, the first kiss is much more important and dangerous than any other kisses. This is because…..

your first kiss is probably given to your first boyfriend and in this generation, you will most likely settle down after going through multiple relationships but no matter how many relationship you enter and exit, there is a high chance that your still remember the moment you gave your first kiss away.

What makes relationship a success and a failure, all depends on comparison. Your 2nd boyfriend will not be as good if your first boyfriend is not that bad. So , if your 1st kiss with your first ex was really good, then your second boyfriend would have to kiss you even better. Vice Versa. But still, how do you know if he is the right guy to give your first kiss to? Well, the challenge is, ‘you don’t know’.  There isn’t any formulae to follow where if he is the guy that fulfills all of them then you can kiss him, however, you have to feel him, in order to kiss him. Alright, don’t get me wrong, what I mean by feel him is that , you must be able to feel that he is the right guy for you, he is a guy that will kiss you sincerely and not just want to kiss you for the fun of it.

A good guy will not rush to take your first kiss away. He will always give you the lead and will take it once you are ready to give it (especially first kiss). As girls, you will know. If you don’t, take your time and don’t rush into it when you are not ready. A kiss must be enjoyable from both side, it should not be an act of action, done just because your partner wants it. Daring game on which personally I think it’s foolish. I do know some people who gave out their first kiss just because he/she lost in a 1 to 1 dare game. This is highly not advisable especially when it comes to scenario where the person that you are going to kiss, is the person that you will say “I THINK” he/she is the one. As the first kiss will accelerate all positive mood it will automatically generate “Internity Blinds Reality” and might loose track on the real feel. (refer to previous post to know more on it’s effect). And for those experienced kissers, please think many times, not just twice, before you take someone else’s first kiss away because it might means a little or nothing to you but it definitely means a lot to them.

There are many type of guys and girls out there that are most likely those experienced type. If you are a first timer, look for those that are new to relationship like you. Take things slow and easy, and remember, all on coming relationship can go at any pace, but take it slow for the 1st relationship (First Move). Stay tune for the next post as I will discuss on “How to get over someone if things doesn’t work out”…

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